5 WAYS TO STOP PORN OR SEX ADDICTION: DAY 5 OF FREE PROGRAM
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5 Ways to Stop Porn: Sex/Porn Freedom Day 5

WHAT ACTIVITIES LEAD TO A PORN OR SEX ADDICTION?

Watching the wrong things? Fantasizing about lustful things? What brings you back to the mad cycle? Porn/sex addiction gives only short-term pleasure and it adds destruction that is long-term. This brings the question. Can an addict increase their pleasure in life by going back to porn/sex addiction?

Overindulgence to give illicit pleasure leads to what I call selling our pleasure backward. Example: A drug addict gets extreme pleasure in the early stages of the addiction. But after 20-30 months they see that their pleasure is very short and their pain is constant.

A better example is a person who gives in to lust at every chance in High school or college, then graduates and does the same thing for the next few years with hardly a break. But 3 years later that behavior is not new but the depression is rampant and your joy is gone.

A short time of pleasure you now get when you fall again has been partially or completely overrun by the problems the addiction has created.

STOP PORN OR SEX ADDICTION AND FOCUS ON YOUR PLEASURE FOR THE MONTH

Understanding that you can’t increase your pleasure for the month by going back to porn/sex addiction is important. You can binge and go back to porn/sex and have short-term pleasure. But that is stealing pleasure from your month and selling it backward. Any pleasure you steal now will have to be paid back with interest. That interest is paid as a decreased amount of pleasure later with added pain and destruction.

Find ways to stop that cycle. Many people have prayed thousands of times to turn aggressively from sin. Turn from lustful TV, sinful thoughts, all sin. Pray with fire and your habit will fade. Like Jonah in the Bible, God has a mission for you. Jonah prayed passionately. Pray and succeed like he did.

 

Philippians 4 says: I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

Could this mean you can become a rock star or TV star? No. It means that when we follow Christ we begin to increase in joy, then we can do more. We can always improve our day when we do things Jesus way.

Seek the Lord and he will give you ways to stop porn with Jesus help.

WAYS TO STOP A PORN OR SEX ADDICTION: WHAT WOULD JESUS DO

I think He would go after change more aggressively than anyone else. I think He would attack the lust cycle. He would go to war with lust and replace it with love. Porn and sex addiction is empty and meaningless and it kills our joy. Then He might pray to the Father to try to get rid of the confusion and frustration that lust always brings. He would spend time in prayer with the Father, giving Him time to fill his/her mind with new thoughts and habits. Pray, Father, take away this spirit of lust and fill me with the Spirit of Self-control.

One might say, man, He would feel rotten and have all my bad habits. But unlike us, He would never look again to the right or left. He would follow Gods plan with a focus that would not allow Him time to mess up. He would do that because He would know how destructive satans traps are. The more often we treat our recovery the way Jesus would. The quicker we will be totally free.

LEARN WAYS TO STOP PORN OR SEX ADDICTION BY WATCHING WHAT OTHERS DO.

Tom changed his thinking by reading Experiencing God by Henry Blackaby.

Sue is memorizing the principal that pleasure can’t be added by a sex or lust habit. When tempted, she tells herself, if I give in to this temptation, I will not get more pleasure, I will just increase the pleasure now and decrease it later. And that comes with a huge price.

Today, read the Bible, read Christian books which can help you find your purpose. Make your goal today to replace lustful pleasure, which comes with pain, with the pleasure found from helping others around you and trying to bring them joy.

Say twice a day. “Pleasure can’t be increased for the month by going back to sex/porn. Illicit pleasure comes with

added destruction.” Never exaggerate the pleasure of lust. Always focus on the destruction it brings. That thinking will change your life.

­Just like in the garden of Eden we have options on things we can think about instead of porn or illicit sex. Think of 5 things you like to do. Now if you focus on how you want to do one or two of those things, your thoughts will change. Next, Jesus will see your focus and effort and He will start to answer your prayers more often.

Leave your guilt behind. When we are sincere about repenting our sins are gone.

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Index

Day 1: Overcoming cravings

Day2: Is God real?

Day 3: Quitting addiction exercises

Day 4: Getting negative emotions out