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  • in reply to: Think About #18115
    timcia
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      To think right means to think the opposite of wrong. If we are not happy with someone close to us, thinking bad about them is wrong. Thinking right is to think about contentment and love, then to pray about contentment and love.

      Second, to allow anxiety or anger to rule us is wrong. To think right consider having a couple of Bible verses in your phone to fight the negative emotion. Then think about those verses, then write a couple of short prayers about the specific emotion.

      Third, some days do stink. But there will be another tomorrow. Praise the Lord, get tough, and give thanks that a better day is coming.

      Fourth, work stinks, school stinks, and _______ stinks. Don’t keep thinking about those things. Give thanks for good things, then think about helping others. Then pray about helping others.

      Finally, we all take time to think about what is bad about our lives. To think right, think about what is good about your life. Consider making it a habit to focus on what is good about your life.

      in reply to: Daily Plan #18113
      timcia
      Keymaster

        With the 1-2 habit, we write down 1-2 key things from an article. To triple its effectiveness set an alarm to review these key items every 30 minutes. Obviously, this only works when you are more alone and can review the key things for a few minutes. But, those are the times when temptation ramps up.

        Second, Galatians 5:1 ESV “For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.

        Consider praying:

        “Father, teach me how to put this slavery to death.”

        Satan wants us to consider triggers for a tiny bit, to keep considering for just a second, to wait to turn away from tempting thoughts for an instant. Why does God want us to put these thoughts “To death.” #1 The Bible commands us to be “Filled with the Holy Spirit.” Considering triggers or bad thoughts stops this filling dead for more than a minute or two. Note: Treat intentional thoughts with rapid repentance. Don’t try to fool God, he knows exactly how intentional it was. #2 Considering our (bad) options keeps us from our purpose and from joy. When we cheat, someone is getting cheated. To find out who, check your mirror. Consider praying:

        “Father, help me to turn from this habit and show me how to find joy.”

        We find joy in purpose and in the presence of the Lord. Remember the two P’s, purpose and presence. They will start you down the path toward joy.

        in reply to: Think About #18111
        timcia
        Keymaster

          The Bible says to think about things that are noble. Noble thoughts are majestic, awesome thoughts. Today we can think: God has a plan for me, or, God has a great plan for me, if I sit around thinking about problems, triggers, money… I may miss the majestic plan He has for me.
          Paul said to “Set your mind on things above not on earthly things.” Noble thoughts are things like doing God’s will, thinking about helping others, as well as storing up treasures in heaven.
          Second, thinking about things that are noble means thinking about honorable things. DeeperChristian.com noted:
          “Jesus is our standard for honor and character. He displayed the decorum and honor of heaven and proved it is possible to live upon this earth with such a life. And now that same Jesus, through His Spirit, lives in you! It is imperative that our minds stay focused upon Him! The boundary for our minds is not just what is true but what is honorable, respectable, reverent, and dignified.
          How has your mind been recently? Are the thoughts you dwell upon filled with honor? Are they reverent? Are they dignified—a thought process that is worthy of respect?”
          Third, to increase in noble thoughts consider writing prayers that fight bad habits and increase in noble thoughts. Consider praying:
          “Father, help me to turn from triggers and help me to care about souls.”
          “Father, show me how wrong thoughts poison my life. Help me to live with honor and reverence.”
          “Father, help me to love and help people more than I love pleasure.”
          If we think right, we will live right. Try to make it a habit to think right.

          in reply to: New Habits #18110
          timcia
          Keymaster

            The 1-2 Habit

            1-2 is a top 5 habit to have for quitting. The 1-2 is writing out or copying and pasting 1-2 key points from articles you like. Write out a top tip (or two) so that you can begin to remember it and implement it into your daily thoughts/life. Consider praying:

            “Jesus, teach me Your Word for quitting.”

            In Matthew 4 Jesus quoted a verse to combat every temptation. It is vital to copy how Jesus handled temptation. Consider quoting during temptation:

            “Romans 8:6 ESV For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace.”

            During temptation, it is wise to know yourself. Pick a verse or verses that will stop the temptation cold, dead.

            Second, take pride in how many ideas/prayers from the 1-2 system that you can remember and quote over the course of the week.

            Third, put the 1-2 tips in your phone. Here is how it might work. You are at a buddies house talking. The TV is blaring temptation blatantly. You turn away and look at the tips in your phone.

            Finally, it is hard to take ideas, then, turn them into reality. It takes constant effort. But it will be one of the smartest things you ever did in your life if you decide to fight temptation at all times.

            in reply to: Think About #18104
            timcia
            Keymaster

              Yesterday was bad. To fight back I prayed the following prayers back to back repeatedly:

              “Lord, help me to love.”

              “Father, help me to be tough.”

              “Father, help me to turn from sin.”

              “Father, show me Your will.”

              Every time I started to think about bad stuff, I started to pray these prayers again. When we fight back, problems that would normally sink us start to be manageable. Why? Partly because now we are focused on other things, and partly because prayer activates God’s help in our lives.

              The Bible says to think about good things. This year is the first year for me to be doing that.

              Don’t let the bad eat up the good. Planning and prayer lead to stopping.

              in reply to: Blessings #18098
              timcia
              Keymaster

                Joshua 1:8 This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you[a] shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success.

                Read this, study it, memorize it. If you learn to love the Bible you will have a great life. Do you want to be prosperous?

                When I meditate on scripture, all of a sudden a light comes on. God’s way is best. Based on the above verse, what would your life look like in 3 months if you meditated on a new scripture, adding one every other day? Constantly working on quoting these scriptures and making them a part of you? Consider praying about that for 5 minutes.

                Second, PSALMS 119 “Blessed are the undefiled in the way, who walk in the law of the Lord.”

                Walk in the law of the Lord this week and see what blessings God has for you.

                2 “Blessed are they that keep his testimonies, and that seek him with the whole heart.”

                Seek Him and see what blessings God has for you.

                3 “They also do no iniquity: they walk in his ways. 4 Thou hast commanded us to keep thy precepts diligently.” A full focus on living right starts to lead toward a full blessing.

                7 I will praise thee with uprightness of heart, when I shall have learned thy righteous judgments.” Always praise Him no matter what. He is always right.

                8 I will keep thy statutes: O forsake me not utterly.” David had experience with God forsaking him because of his sin. He did not want it to happen again.

                9 Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.” When we focus on the Bible verses about the things we struggle with, our ways are cleansed.

                10 With my whole heart have I sought thee: O let me not wander from thy commandments.” When we obey and seek the Lord, life starts to get good.

                11 Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.” We don’t stop sinning by luck. Sometimes we struggle with sin even though we pray. But once God’s Word is filling our hearts, we begin to have the power to overcome.

                in reply to: What to Do #18085
                timcia
                Keymaster

                  Bad emotions lead to depression. If you start to become angry, discontent, stressed, or any of a dozen negative emotions… Panic. Negative emotions lead to darkness and darkness leads to bad habits. Yesterday I noted that praising the Lord 100 times is a top 7 way to quit. Why? Because that praise is “fighting” negative emotions.

                  Second, exercise. Aerobic activity fights stress and fights negative emotions. Consider picking an exercise and then try to make it a habit.

                  Third, give thanks. It is a Bible command after all… “In everything give thanks.” Satan wants you mad at your wife/husband, job, and everything else. Instead, list what you are thankful for.

                  Fourth, attack your negative emotions with scripture. I just clicked “Verses frustration.” I scrolled down to the Open Bible list. Wow, it is great. Consider making it a habit to do this when your worst negative emotion flares up.

                  Fifth, realize you can do something. I have prob given 20 things “To do,” in my last dozen or so articles. Consider starting a notebook that has “To do,” written on its cover. Then, the next time your emotions attack, you will have something to do. Having something “To do” is a top 5 trick for fighting temptation.

                  Sixth, when you are fighting desperately against negative emotions, having something to do won’t be as fun as a vacation in paradise. So always remember… You are doing this replacement activity as work. As fighting back. As a powerful technique to get you through to where life gets good again. Plus…when you make it safely, life will start to get better and better.

                  in reply to: Overwhelmed #18077
                  timcia
                  Keymaster

                    Today I am writing about serious prayer. It is so serious that I am recommending praying over two verses for 5 minutes each, first.

                    Proverbs 20:1 ESV Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise.

                    Proverbs 23:32 ESV In the end it bites like a serpent and stings like an adder.

                    If you want to increase the odds of freedom, please pray over each verse for 5 minutes.

                    Darkness will attack and sometimes start to overwhelm you. To fight back use the verses for quitting for direct temptation, but what if the temptation is overwhelming and constant?

                    After fully repenting of drinking/drugs, consider praying:

                    “Jesus, please cover me with Your blood. Forgive me for ______ and _______. Thank you for Your cross. Thank you for taking a crown of thorns for me. Thank you for taking nails for me. Thank you for taking a spear for me. I commit to submitting to Your Ways (delete this line if it is not true). I pray that You would fill this room with Your presence.”

                    Second, do you want the Holy Spirit with you at all times? If so consider praying:

                    “Holy Spirit, I want Your presence all the time. Please help me to know Your ways.”

                    Third, please skip these prayers on days when you are not sincere and totally ready to change. The blood of Christ and His cross are very serious. Only pray about them when you are fully committed.

                    Finally, when overwhelmed, decide if you are fully committed. If you are, these prayers will have great power for you.

                    in reply to: Is the Bible or Prayer more important for quitting #18062
                    timcia
                    Keymaster

                      We are always fighting 2 battles. One with our flesh, and the other with satan. Pastor Jack Hayford said, “You can’t cast out the flesh, and you can’t disciple a demon.”
                      First, how do most demonic battles look? They are often a demon whispering to us, “Think about that, that is spectacular. That is what you want, what you have to have.”
                      The Bible is clear, some people are demon possessed. But, in addition to that, many people are oppressed to a lesser or greater degree.
                      Second, if we treat demonic warfare the same as our warfare with the flesh we will get into trouble. The Bible says:
                      Matthew 12:43 When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none.
                      44 Then he saith, I will return into my house from whence I came out; and when he is come, he findeth it empty, swept, and garnished.
                      45 Then goeth he, and taketh with himself seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last state of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation.”
                      The key word in this passage is “empty.” The person in this example repented, but then did not start to do God’s will. Did not start to seek to be filled with the Holy Spirit.
                      Third, whether you have a demon, or are harassed by one, you can get it out. They hate the verses for quitting. I will never forget the day I printed those verses out. I printed them, and decided to attack back when tempted. When tempted I was going to get those verses out and start studying.
                      I was shocked by how my temptations changed. Sure… I wanted to consider my options, but now I was not being driven toward my habit. I was not enslaved like I had been. It was now a fair fight. A fight I wanted to win.
                      Fourth, when I say we must “Pound things (darkness) out,” I am referring to demonic harassment. They won’t leave you alone until you pound them in a way they hate.
                      Fifth, demons of lust hate verses about lust. Demons of drinking hate verses about drinking. Demons of covetousness, hate verses about covetousness. They are smart, they know you are submitting to God by quoting these (Very hard) verses. They know you are learning about them, learning about the destruction, learning about their darkness. Learning how to break the very chains they put on you.
                      Finally, most importantly, seek your purpose fervently. Seek to be filled with the Holy Spirit fervently. That way… When they check on you they say, “Not much room here for me. This house is full. I am not going to check on them as often in the future.”
                      After that, it is a fair fight.

                      in reply to: Emotional Intelligence #18052
                      timcia
                      Keymaster

                        Bible study increases the Holy Spirit in us. The Holy Spirit increases our power to fight habits. Have daily Bible study. Read the instructions for life. The more specific the better. They will lead you to a better life.

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