Two groups of people have struggles over the holidays. Those that are alone, and those who are with people they struggle to get along with. The first paragraph is for those who are alone, the second for those with problematic people.
The Bible tells us to “Give thanks in every thing.” Ouch! Home alone, give thanks? Yes. If we are actively trying to do things God’s way, plus if we are regularly giving thanks, then, the Holy Spirit will increase in us.
Second, work constantly on the “Praise the Lord” habit.
Third, find an article here or online about things to do. Then practice the above two habits while you try new activities. Be determined to give God a chance to show you that He is with you. You 100% can make it if He is with you.
Finally, when problems arise, stop and think about this perfect opportunity to think about Jesus, improving your closeness to Jesus. If Jesus is close… you will stay firm.
Problematic People
Determine to be the peacemaker. Consider praying:
“Father, take away this quarreling spirit, and help me to be the peacemaker.”
Second, give thanks for the people around you. This includes everyone, even spouses, even if you are mad at them.
Third, include God in the celebration. Practice the “Praise the Lord” habit during the celebration.
Finally, when problems arise, stop and think about this perfect opportunity to think about Jesus, improving your closeness to Jesus. If Jesus is close… you will stay firm.
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