Boredom is a trigger. We get bored, then we flippantly decide what to do to pass our time. We choose an activity and then realize that it is not exactly pure. Stop. If you want to find joy, it is wise to learn the habit of stopping and finding a better “pure” activity to do. Gray area activities usually start you down a slippery slope.
Frustration: Preachitteachit noted the following: “When frustration is our trigger to habits, then sin becomes our source of peace. Sin is treated as an “oasis.” When this happens, we label sin as our “safe place” as compared to the parts of life that are upsetting. This makes sin our friend and anyone or anything that opposes or interferes with our sin our enemy.”
Pray: “Father, show me how You want me to deal with this frustration.”
The article continues: “Hurt: When hurt is our trigger for habits, then they become our refuge. In our moments of sinful escape, we feel protected from life, and a growing allegiance develops towards our sin. In actuality, our habits provide as much protection as a child pulling the covers over his/her head.”
Look at how David prayed in the Psalms when he was hurt. Pray and meditate on his prayers.
Betrayal: They promised me a good future at this job. They lied.
Instead of seeking revenge, pray: “Father, help me to be content. You are a great and mighty God.”
The article continues with “Bitterness.” “When bitterness is our trigger for habits, then sin becomes our justice. If sin as revenge is fast and hot, then sin as justice is slow and cold. No longer are we seeking to hurt another by our actions; now we are merely nursing our wound. If we tried to explain our sin in words, we would have to say we believed our sin had some healing power. But because that seems foolish, we are more prone to just excuse our sin by the sin done to us.
List and rank the top five motives/triggers for your habit.
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