Stop The Addictions | Gambling Freedom in 60 Days: Day 31
15825
page-template-default,page,page-id-15825,page-child,parent-pageid-15532,ajax_fade,page_not_loaded,,vertical_menu_enabled,side_area_uncovered_from_content,qode-child-theme-ver-1.0.0,qode-theme-ver-13.3,qode-theme-bridge,wpb-js-composer js-comp-ver-5.4.5,vc_responsive

Gambling Freedom in 60 Days: Day 31

Whatever your addiction is, it is important to fully understand the pros and con’s of your addiction at all times. We all would love to live in a fantasy world where we could just magically stop any addiction at any time. But it doesn’t work that way because there is always something we like a lot that keeps pulling us back in.

One secret to success is to understand what your addiction trap is. An addiction trap is any activity you do which will lead you back into full blown addiction. So we need to be aware of and very afraid of any activity which will trap us and cause us to be enslaved by the addiction.

For example we have the sugar addict. Sugar addicts don’t necessarily eat large meals. But when they eat one thing with sugar on it, it leads to 2 things then 4 things with sugar in it and so on and so forth. So in this case the trap is baited with sugar. In this example let us look at how 2 different people’s plans might play out.

In situation #1 our dieter is determined not to overeat today at work. In situation #2 our 2nd dieter has a blueprint for success. The blueprint calls for a small bowl of bean soup for lunch along with some carrots. The question is, which person would you predict will give in to the always available cookies. Person #1 who is very determined or person #2 who is very determined and who also has a plan? Yes both people can raid the cookies, but your odds of resisting cookies double or triple when you have a full stomach.

In this case we have sprung the trap (which is the cookies) before we got in it by making a blueprint for our success. In this scenario the addict understands that if they don’t prepare a good lunch they will be in severe temptation. So when the cookies are available their hunger may start them down a slippery slope which they likely can’t handle.

It is a similar story with a gambling addiction. If person #1 is determined not to gamble on Friday night they may succeed. But if person #2 is determined not to party on Friday night and they have a fully scheduled course of action to get them through the night they have an advantage.

Here is a key point.

The more addicted you are the more you need to be prepared for your every move. In this example person #2 has a plan to play pool with non gambling friends. Then they will hang out with Johnny who wants to support their dedication to change. Then they plan to go to bed at 1AM sharp.

In this scenario they now have some power and that power is their plan. And if they simply follow their plan they will spring the trap shut before they get caught in it.

What are your addiction traps?

Gambling traps are everywhere and they are like the beautiful woman enticing the rich old man. Just spending a few months with her will be great fun. I know she is likely a shark but I can handle it.

Know your gambling traps and fight them like the plague. Once you go near them they will suck you in.

 

1 John 2 New International Version (NIV)

My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody does sin, we have an advocate with the Father—Jesus Christ, the Righteous One. He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world. We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands. Whoever says, “I know him,” but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person. But if anyone obeys his word, love for God[a] is truly made complete in them. This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did.

What if we made a commitment to be righteous for the next 24 hours? What if we also made a commitment to treat others with Jesus love? What if we also made a commitment to live as Jesus did? Would life be better or worse? Would our level of destruction decrease? Would our joy increase?

Many religious people say we can’t be righteous. But don’t believe them because their problem is they broke their commitment to righteousness and they don’t want to wallow in the mud all alone.

The problem is not that we can’t be righteous. The problem is that we refuse to do what Jesus wants us to do. This creates a void and the void is most easily filled with sin or addiction. But rapid repentance gives us a new chance to know Jesus.

Today pray about and make a commitment to righteousness, treating others with love and fulfilling your purpose or training to do so. Those who do this with a 100% commitment will love the results. In fact they will follow this up with a goal to live that way for a week. That will be so great they will extend it to a month and then a year.

You see, those who commit 100% will love this exercise and addiction will start to be a fading memory. The only thing that can stop you is your level of commitment. Lastly if you have already forgotten the “How to never stumble” article from yesterday – go back and print it out and review it daily. That’s what people who are 100% dedicated do.

Read Proverbs 26, 2nd Corinthians 12 and Matthew 3
Continue to read the Purpose Driven Life

Say this morning noon and night: “This temptation will go away if I don’t act on it. If I give in it will return and it may be even stronger next time. If I don’t give in it will go away and someday it will go away for good. I have the self control to change”.

Lord Jesus, You said, “I have come to set the captives free.” We are captive and need Your healing touch. Free us, Lord, from our addictions, so that we will be:
…free from the cares and worries that stifle our happiness;
…free from sins that cling to us, and to which we cling;
…free from all compulsive behavior that prevents us from becoming what You, Lord, have planned for us.
Bring us, loving Savior, to the experience of abundant life which You promised. Amen.

It takes time to make enough changes so that you can live an abundant life but if you are fully dedicated it will happen

The Gambling Addiction Client Workbook noted the following: “Sloth: Laziness of the will that causes a neglect of duty. Are you lazy or given to idleness, procrastination, nonchalance, and indifference in material things. Are you lukewarm in prayer? Do you hold self-discipline in contempt? Would you rather read a novel than study something requiring brain work such as the GA (1989b) book? Are you fainthearted in performance of those things that are morally or spiritually difficult? Are you ever listless with aversion to effort in any form? Are you ever indolent to the extent where you perform work carelessly?”

  1. David Reynolds noted the following: “The Lord confronts us, “When will you rise from your sleep?” Unless our local, mainline congregations in America “rise from our sleep,” “poverty will come upon us like a prowler,” and we will be shutting our doors permanently while people we love who are lost and dying without Jesus enter eternity lost separated from God forevermore while all the time God cries out to us, “Church, do you really care?”
    The Bible warns us many times as it does in the first part of Jeremiah 4:10, “Accursed is the one who is slack in doing the work of the LORD. . .” In many translations of this verse that English word “slack” if often rendered “slothful.” God’s ministry is never to be done slothfully by His people.
    There are warning signs or symptoms which alert us that we are in danger of becoming slothful sluggards in our ministry for Jesus Christ. Slothful disciples epitomize: laxness, lethargy, apathy, disinterest, indifference, and complacency. Spiritual sluggards often are coldhearted, passionless, spiritless, unfeeling, and unemotional in their relationship with God and their love and concern for others, especially towards the unchurched lost.
    Such was the case with the servant who hid his talent in our Gospel Lesson from Matthew 25. In the King James Version his master spoke to him as “You wicked and slothful servant.” Talents symbolize all the spiritual gifts, natural aptitudes, time, resources, and opportunities God has given to each of us to use in service and ministry to Him and to others.
    The slothful servant did not develop his talent to use in service for his master, and many of us in our Churches today do likewise. We become apathetic and show little or no interest in letting God use us in ministry and mission. We become lax in our own personal spiritual formation and growth as Christian disciples. In the spiritual realm all this is part of the deadly sin of sloth.
    Just as the master in the Parable of the Talents gave talents to all His servants, so the Holy Spirit has given each one of us spiritual gifts and natural abilities to use in ministry to others for the advancement of His Kingdom. When we do not develop, multiply, and use them for His glory, we are guilty of the deadly sin of sloth.
    While we are not saved by good works, we are saved to do good works for the Kingdom of God. Paul explicitly affirms so in Ephesians 2:10, “[God] has “created [us] in Christ Jesus for good works, which [He] prepared beforehand to be our way of life.” Then in Galatians 5:6b Paul expounds on this theme of working in ministry by reminding us “the only thing that counts is faith working through love.”
    As His faithful, loving, obedient servants we must work in love in serving others by feeding the hungry, giving drink to the thirsty, offering hospitality and shelter to the stranger, clothing the naked, taking care of the sick, visiting those in prison, and offering Christ to the lost.
    God has prepared this as our “way of life,” and our calling to live this lifestyle has never been more urgent. Jesus challenges us as He did the Twelve in John 9:4, “We must work the works of Him who sent Me while it is day; night is coming when no one can work.” Will we let the Holy Spirit work through us, or will we be slothful servants who refuse to use our talents in ministry to others?
    In his Alpha Talk “What About the Church,” Nicky Gumbel tells this story about John Wimber, the founding pastor of the Anaheim Vineyard Christian Fellowship and the Worldwide Vineyard Movement: “John Wimber was once approached by a member of his congregation who had met somebody in great need. After the Sunday service this man told John Wimber of his frustration in trying to get help.
    “‘This man needed a place to stay, food, and support while he gets on his feet and looks for a job,’ he said. ‘I am really frustrated. I tried telephoning the church office, but no one could see me and they couldn’t help me. I finally ended up having to let him stay with me for the week! Don’t you think the church should take care of people like this?’
    “John Wimber thought for a moment and then said, ‘It looks like the church did.’” [SOURCE: Nicky Gumbel, “What About the Church,” in QUESTIONS OF LIFE: A PRACTICAL INTRODUCTION TO THE CHRISTIAN FAITH (Colorado Springs: Cook Ministry Resources, a division of Cook Communications Ministries, 1996), 226.]
    My sisters and brothers in Christ, this is kind of work Jesus calls each one of us to do for His kingdom. He is counting on you and me to “take care of people like this,” the 82.5% of Americans who are not in Church today most of whom claim they believe in God yet see us “being more about organized religion than we are about loving God and loving people.” Jesus calls us to “make a difference in their lives” that will count for eternity.
    May God grant each one of us “24/7” open eyes, open ears, and out stretched hands” to minister to their hurts, pains, and needs in love. In surrender and obedience to the Holy Spirit we shall overcome the deadly sin of sloth.”

    Sloth leads to gambling. Helping others and spreading the Gospel leads to victory.

    Index

    Day one: Quitting addiction exercises

    Day two: It is important to admit you are powerless

    Day 3: Learn the right way to live

Day 4: Getting rid of negative emotions

Day 5: Remember – money lost is not yours. Don’t try to get it back or you will lose more.

Day 6: can you increase your pleasure by gambling?

Day 7: Staying clean in all ways helps you quit the addiction

Day 8: Decide what pain and pleasure you want

Day 9: Analyze what leads you back to your addiction

Day 10: Change your emotions and your mindsets. Stop believing that your big score will come in.

Day 11: Where the Spirit of the Lord is – there is liberty

Day 12: Learn how to worship God. Also try to develop positive addictions.

Day 13: Write out a letter saying why you want to quit

Day 14: Overcoming cravings and negative emotions

Day 15: You have some self control

Day 16: Have a list of coping statements. Have a list of substitute activities.

Day 17: How to find living water that will always satisfy you

Day 18: Do not have faulty beliefs abourt gambling odds

Day 19: Interview with a professional poker player

Day 20: What we can learn from Adam and Eve’s mistakes

Day 21: more great stuff from Adam and Eve’s mistakes

Day 22: Self control

Day 23: What to think about to develop self control

Day 24: What are your values?

Day 25: How to pray to fight addiction

Day 26: Which prayers are answered quickly – which prayers time more time and persistence

Day 27: How to fill the vacuum that addiction caused

28: Finding a good church

29: Knowing why you can’t quit can help you plan how to quit

30: How to eliminate the vacuum created by quitting